Thank you so much!!! I can finally go to bed now

BTW I would also recommend these lines in the default-ssl or default-ssl.conf (depending on what is in your folder when logged into your server
/etc/apache2/sites-available/

under: <Virtual host default:443>

Find a place to put this three lines

Header add Strict-Transport-Security "max-age=1576800"
SSLProtocol all -SSLv2 -SSLv3
SSLCipherSuite HIGH:!aNULL:!MD5

</VirtualHost>

This will give you a better score at https://sslanalyzer.comodoca.com/